Applying to college is stressful as I’m sure every senior agrees as we make our next ‘big decision” of our lives. Some of us cope better than others, but in the end, the stress is always there. After surveying seniors of my class, these five stresses seemed to appear repeatedly: 

1. Picking a school

2. How to apply and making sure you did it right

3. Getting accepted/ are you good enough?

4. The wait

5. Finances

Although we can’t get rid of these stresses completely, a little research has turned up some helpful tips if you’re stressing out like I am.

Picking a school:

When you pick a school, look for a school that offers your major but also interests you. Do not blindly pick a school because you don’t want to waste money on all those application fees. Keep in mind that the schools you pick could be your potential new home, so try to put yourself first; hopefully, your loved ones will support your choice regardless.

How to apply and making sure you did it right:

As you pick a school and begin to apply, especially if it’s your first time, it can be nerve wracking and maybe even scary. Don’t fret! If you’re not sure how to apply, do some research and ask your teachers for help. They’ve gone through all of the processes and will gladly help. If you don’t feel open to asking for help, here’s a helpful link on how to apply to college.

Getting accepted/ are you good enough?

Realistically, many people have insecurities and things they think they can’t achieve. Unfortunately, our own thoughts limit what we accomplish even though we have the potential to do great things. To believe we are good enough, we must have a positive mindset and be optimistic about college. Keep in mind that colleges review your applications individually; hence why many require an essay or writing sample. Many areas other than your grades, SAT scores, and class rank come into play when it comes to deciding “if you’re good enough.” To help you out, find teachers to write recommendation letters for you and have faith in yourself. Chances are, you’re panicking while the admissions office is preparing your acceptance letter!

The wait

Could this be the most stressful of the five stresses? If you’re impatient with these things like I am, then yes. Waiting for your letter is extremely stressful because there is absolutely nothing you can do to speed up the process. However, instead of focusing your time on checking the mail constantly, take your mind off of the situation. Stress can lead to illness, so don’t stress about that letter; it’ll come at some point in time. If you’re not thinking about it, the surprise will be even better when you do receive your letter! My advice to you is to have fun and enjoy the college application process rather than making it a terrible task. Go out and have fun because that letter will come, and despite the obstacles you will pull through.

Finances

On average, around 84 to 89 percent of students who apply for financial aid receive it. Along with the financial aid given after filing your FAFSA, scholarships specific to your particular major are available for you to apply to. Here is a link I found really helpful to search for scholarships based on your preferences. Another thing with financing college is that if your grades and SAT scores are good enough, you may receive a merit-based scholarship from the schools you apply to. Most college websites provide a chart including a 4.0 GPA scale along with SAT scores and what merit-based scholarships you may be eligible to receive. By applying for scholarships and filing the FAFSA, you are increasing your chances of acquiring free money. My tip for you when thinking about finances is to talk to your parents and to start saving for the next chapter of your life.

Whether your decision is easy or not, the application process can be painfully stressful. Hopefully, you now have a better idea on how to cope and get through these top five stresses associated with college.